SEX & INTOXICATION

Consent and Intoxication cannot be in relationship together.

First, let’s talk the legalities. In Canada, it is legal and okay for adults to consume intoxicants (alcohol or drugs). It is also legal and okay for adults to participate in sex. But, when participating in each of these activities, it is important to do so in a way that is safe, respectful and responsible.

When we consume intoxicants, it impairs our ability to listen for, and receive enthusiastic consent from our partners.

If you, or your partner have consumed intoxicants, wait to engage in sex until you are both sober. This way, you will always know you and your partners are enthusiastically consenting to “get busy” together.

Quick Refresher: What are considered intoxicants?

• Alcohol

• Legalized drugs such as:

  • cannabis;

  • prescription or over the counter drugs (pain medication, cold medication, allergy medication, sleeping pills, etc); and

  • any criminalized drugs including (but not limited to) magic mushrooms, cocaine, LCD, MDMA, methamphetamine, etc.

Consent cannot be given by individuals who are:

• underage;

• intoxicated or incapacitated by drugs or alcohol;

• asleep; or

• unconscious. 

#ASKINGFORIT means checking in with the person before you initiate sexual activity to ask if they are intoxicated. If you suspect your partner is more intoxicated than they say they are, stop sexual activity and wait until you are both sober to “get busy.”

If you initiate any sexual activity with an individual who is intoxicated, incapacitated, asleep, or unconscious, it is sexual assault and a serious crime. Even if someone says they are sober now, the effects of intoxicants may not be felt immediately, and they may no longer be able to give consent once sexual activity is underway.

As a general rule, if you or your partner have consumed intoxicants, wait to engage in sex until you are both sober.